Showing posts with label c/o 2007. Show all posts
Showing posts with label c/o 2007. Show all posts

Monday, February 21, 2011

Blog Spotlight: Inklings

Welcome to the Blog Spotlight. Each week, we'll introduce you to MUW alums who write about their lives, careers, families, and hobbies on their own blogs. If you would like to be featured, contact us!

Blog: Inklings (http://caelynreynolds.wordpress.com)
Blogger: Carrie Pate ('07), Vancleave, MS (writing under the pseudonym Caelyn Reynolds)
 
 
A therapist and writer from the Mississippi Gulf Coast, Carrie has been combining both of her interests in her blog, Inklings, since the summer of 2009. Carrie's main goal in starting a blog was to "loosen up" her creativity by having a ready outlet for her writing, and though her updates are sometimes sporadic, she tells us, "I hope to improve on that."
 
Along with reviews and critiques of children's, adolescent, and young adult literature, Carrie's blog also features an examination of the creative writing process. "In my reviews, I look at novels for theme, bibliotherapy/sociological merit, artistic merit, writing structure, quotability, and general likeability," she states. "In regards to the writing process itself, I look at everything from what inspires the writing to the challenges associated with it--such as writer’s block--and any other process I feel like discussing."
 
Carrie chose the name "Inklings" because it appealed to her on several levels. "I just liked it. I think of an 'inkling' as a small idea or inspiration," she says, explaining that she also couldn't resist the "ink" reference in the title. "I like the gentle word play."
 
Carrie feels that blogging has been a great experience thus far. "I enjoy my blog. It’s opened me up to some very fun reads, and it’s a great excuse to read things that are technically not 'adult' but have a lot of merit," she explains, adding, "Also, it’s been a great opportunity for my own nostalgia. I saw recently that Terry Pratchett won a prestigious award for teen lit--the timing is perfect. I had decided to go ahead and justify him as a great young adult read, and then this came over my email.  My next set of posts will be shameless Terry Pratchett worship, and I can’t wait."
 
FYI: Carrie also contributes to two other blogs: True Classics: The ABCs of Classic Film (which she co-authors with two other W alums) and Mental Minutes, a blog dedicated to discussion of mental health issues.
 
To see some of Carrie's insightful literature reviews, make sure to check out Inklings today!

Monday, February 7, 2011

Blog Spotlight: SEC Sideline Diva

Welcome to the Blog Spotlight. Every week, we will introduce you to MUW alums who write about their lives, careers, families, and hobbies on their own blogs. If you would like to be featured, contact us!

Blog: SEC Sideline Diva: A Southern Girl's Take on College Football (http://sidelinediva.wordpress.com/)
Blogger: Erin Gioia ('07), Birmingham, AL (writing under the pseudonym Nikki G.)



Having spent years following various blogs started by her friends, Erin began to wonder last year if perhaps she should dive into the blogging world with her own site. However, she was initially hesitant to begin a blog. "I had never seriously looked at blogging myself because writing is definitely not something that comes easily to me," she says.

But Erin soon noticed that there was a dearth of blogs devoted to one of her favorite topics--college football--that were written from a female perspective. "I found several blogs dedicated to NFL games but not college ball," she explains. "I started thinking about what I could write and decided I could blog about college football from the point of view of an educated woman."

Calling herself the "SEC Sideline Diva," a name that she created as a combination of several friends' recommendations, Erin began blogging at the start of the 2010 college football season. At first, Erin wondered if she would be able to maintain a regular blogging schedule, but her worries were ultimately unfounded. "I decided to take it as a personal challenge to make it through the entire season with two posts a week," she says. "I did manage to make it through Championships weekend!" However, she admits, "I didn’t quite make bowl season like I planned." And while football season may now be over, Erin will be back to writing regular posts when the players hit the field this fall.

Some of Erin's favorite blog reads include:

Favorite football blog – Gridiron Goddess - http://gridirongoddess.net/

Favorite author blog – Shanna Swendson - http://shanna-s.livejournal.com/

Favorite W folks’ blogs – When Pigs Fly - http://wpfllc.wordpress.com/ (the blog of Lydia Quarles '71); Inklings of a Scriblarian – http://caelynreynolds.wordpress.com/ (the blog of Carrie Pate '07); True Classics: The ABCs of Classic Film – http://trueclassics.wordpress.com/ (to which Erin is also a contributor)
 
Favorite other blogs – Marshall Ramsey – http://marshallramsey.com/
 
Thank you, Erin, for sharing your blog with us. Make sure SEC Sideline Diva becomes one of your must-reads when football season cranks back up again this fall!

Monday, January 31, 2011

Blog Spotlight: Lauren in Libraryland

Welcome to the Blog Spotlight. Every week, we will introduce you to MUW alums who write about their lives, careers, families, and hobbies on their own blogs. If you would like to be featured, contact us!

Blog: Lauren in Libraryland: Musings of a Future Info Pro (http://www.laurendodd.com/)
Blogger: Lauren Dodd ('07), Montgomery, AL



How long have you been blogging?

I've maintained personal blogs ever since I've had access to the internet, and blogs for class since I started my program, but I began this blog last June.

What made you decide to start blogging?

I've been reading other librarian blogs since I started library school about 2 years ago -- my Google Reader is full of them. There are many librarians out there who I admire and would love to meet and talk to. My website is a professional portfolio of sorts, and I thought adding a blog would help me critically engage with the profession and my peers, as well as demonstrate my dedication to my field. I also noticed that while there were tons of librarian blogs, there were far fewer library school student blogs, so I wanted to reach out to other library school students as well.

What is the main focus of Lauren in Libraryland?

The focus my blog started as simply the documentation of me and my experiences in library school, such as attending professional conferences, working at student jobs and internships, etc. But when I noticed that I was inadvertently giving advice to other library school students in my posts, that became more of my focus. When I started library school, I felt fairly overwhelmed about job tracks and internships and resources, so now I'm trying to reach out and offer tips that I wish someone had offered me. I also write about current issues in the profession.

What's the significance of your blog's title?

Well, obviously, I love alliteration. I also thought that the nod to Alice in Wonderland was fairly apt, as my library school experience has been nothing short of a wild, crazy ride. "Musings of a Future Info Pro" is a reference to the term information professional, which is a sort of a larger description of librarians, knowledge managers, taxonomists, etc. I knew that no matter what, I would end up as an information professional of some sort, but I didn't know if I would necessarily end up as a librarian because of the terrible library job market (though I am still hoping to, and it's looking more likely!).

What are your ultimate blogging goals?

To be honest, I've already achieved a lot of what I had hoped when I started this blog. A few of my favorite librarian bloggers have linked to some of my posts, resulting in more traffic than I ever thought I would get, and we've had some online conversations. I've "met" many librarians and library school students who are also bloggers, and a few of us have teamed up for a new library school student blog called Hack Lib School. I've also put my site on my resume, and had future employers read my blog and take notice. After the interview for my current co-op position, my now-supervisor enthusiastically discussed some of my posts with me. From this point forward, I'm just hoping to stay connected to the profession and other librarians. I am not the world's most frequent updater, which is kind of a blogging no-no, but I put care into everything I do write, so maybe it balances out in the end!

What are some of your must-read favorite blogs?

Hyperbole and a Half - http://hyperboleandahalf.blogspot.com/
Healthy Eats - The Food Network Healthy Living Blog - http://blog.foodnetwork.com/healthyeats
Poor Girl Eats Well - http://www.poorgirleatswell.com/
Ask a Manager - http://www.askamanager.org/
Cake Wrecks - http://cakewrecks.blogspot.com/
Postsecret - http://www.postsecret.com/
 
Thanks, Lauren, for sharing your blog with us. I encourage all of you to follow Lauren in Libraryland for even more insights into the trials and joys of library school!

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Birmingham Chapter Meeting


The Birmingham chapter of Mississippi's First Alumnae Association met January 15, 2011 to hear fellow alumna Jimmie Meece Moomaw read from her new book Southern Fried Child.  Pictured are left to right, front row: Alice Michelle Roberts '01 and Kaye Howard Smith '91; back row - Charlotte Dale McQueen Thornton '69, Roberta Shelton Atkinson '68, Shirley Rutherford Spain '64, Jimmie Moomaw '58, Erin Goia '07, Jo Nell Hales '57, Betty DeBay Hull '64 and Jane Mansell Chamberlain '66.,

Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Holiday Memories: Christmas Concerts


I never, ever missed the chorale Christmas program at the W!!! I was there on a Scholar's Day or other preview day my senior year of high school, and I went every year following. I would continue to go, if possible. They always did such a wonderful job, and the campus is so beautiful when decorated for Christmas!
Carrie Pate, 2007

I was in the Chorale and Madrigal Singers while at the W. The Christmas Concert was always the most awe-inspiring evening. Poindexter would be decked out with a poinsettia tree, garlands, lights and wreaths---it was so beautiful! Bruce Lesley was the director at that time and he loved to open the Christmas Concert with either the Madrigals or the Chorale singing a processional around the audience. The music would just envelop the entire hall of Poindexter and give you chills to hear. One year I remember singing "Masters in the Hall" and another year we sang "Nowell, Nowell" around the packed audience. As beautiful and glorious as the opening of the concert was and the wonderful pieces sung throughout the concert the highlight was always the end of the concert when the Chorale would lead the audience by candlelight over to Welty Hall singing "Silent Night" and then sing "Joy to the World" and maybe a couple more selections from the bottom floor of the atrium with the audience standing in the balconies---absolutely the most amazing and beautiful sounds. Refreshments would be served afterwards. Truly, one of the best ways to start the Christmas Season.
Anghaarad Teague Dees '95

I cannot remember the year (probably 1987), but one Christmas all the social clubs made ornaments and garland and strung popcorn and decorated a huge Christmas tree on the stage in Poindexter. Candles were lit all around the balcony area. There was a wonderful Christmas program with really nice music. I was in New Horizons and I remember singing from the balcony and I loved the way the sound floated around.....Poindexter never looked better! We sang a lot of the beautiful Christmas church music with the choir and Dr. Dorough. New Horizons sang the Carpenters "Merry Christmas, Darling," and it ended a capella - it was a beautiful blend of voices. Though I have sung many times since in a multitude of church programs and even I later sang in the Singing Christmas Tree outdoors at Belhaven, that Christmas memory at the W is the one I think of more than any other. It was magical!
Donna Ford Lyon, 1991


We had various club Christmas activities & even some dorm activities some years. But, the only things that stand out for me are out of the Music Department. Christmas Vespers, Dr. Graves' choirs, Dr. Swingle's choirs, like that. And, every year I loved whatever any group from the Music Department had to offer & continued to enjoy whatever that was after graduation whether I was living in Columbus or in Tupelo.

Also, the W had an Invitational Tournament, Basketball, and I enjoyed it every year, and attended after graduation as much as before, while living both in Columbus and in Tupelo.
Donna L. Bridges

One of my favorite memories of Christmas at MUW was the Glee Club, under the direction of Dr. Matson, presenting a Christmas program in Whitfield Auditorium. All of us in Glee Club walked down the two aisles together singing Hodie Chirstus Natus Est. Then we presented a whole concert of Christmas music. With all of us in white evening dresses and beauty of the music, it was really beautiful.
Francis Hairston, c/o 1961

I remember when the Glee Club had to be in the Columbus Christmas parade. We had to walk and sing--all the while nearly freezing to death! It was still fun though. I just remember doing this once. (Maybe Dr. Matson decided it was too cruel to make us do it again. On second thought, maybe HE didn't want to do it again!)
Carolyn Dick Spiers - 1965

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Christmas: A Time for Friends


Most people didn't do a whole lot for Christmas because we usually only had a week of class and then finals between Christmas and the end of the semester so everything was super squished. I, however, am very big into Christmas so I always came back as early as possible the Sunday after Thanksgiving to decorate a little for the holidays. Freshmen year was just a string of lights but starting my sophmore year, I had a garland and bows to go over the door in the hall, a 3 ft. tree in our room, and a string of lights in the window. All four years I hosted a small Christmas party in my room so that my group of friends could be together and exchange whatever gifts we were giving whichever friends were going to be there. No pressure on anyone to give a gift but I had something for everyone who was invited.


My other favorite Christmas memory was actually from the year before I was a student when I came for Scholar's Day. At that time, Scholar's Day was an overnight event where the prospective students came in on Friday for some sessions and tours, spent the night in the dorms, and had interviews on Saturday. One of the things held in conjunction with this was the annual Christmas Love Feast concert in Poindexter on Friday night after the dinner. The concert was wonderful and the low lighting and decorations made Poindexter look lovely. After the concert, we walked by candlelight over to Welty for the lighting of the school tree in the Atrium and sang Silent Night. The trees that are along the road behind the front campus dorms were lit up and I remember thinking how beautiful I found the campus that night and know that was one of the things that got me to stay.

Erin Gioia, c/o 2007

Friday, October 1, 2010

Fur Baby Friday

Meet Spike and Gracie Belle, the furbabies of class of 2007 alumna Michelle Wescovich Daugherty.


These cute Chihuahuas are turning one year old this month!

Spike's nickname is "Man-Man," and he's the self-assigned "protector" of the family.


Gracie's nickname is "Sissy," and she's her mama's sweet lapdog.

 

Fur Baby Friday runs on the first Friday of every month. If you would like to see your fur baby featured, please send photos to mfaeablog@gmail.com.

Thursday, September 23, 2010

Ashley Athas Young's Strike-A-Pose Photography

Ashley Athas Young is another alumna with the business bug.  One of her businesses is Strike-A-Pose Photography.  We’ll learn about the other later in this series.  Ashley graduated from MUW in 2007 with a BFA in Graphic Design.  She was a member of the Mam’Selle Social Club and a #2 Jester.  

When asked why she decided to start this business, Ashley replied “My goal is to be able to stay at home with my son to get away from punching a time clock everyday. Although I love my Graphic Design job, my passion is to get my photography business up and running enough to where I don’t need my day job anymore. At the rate I’m going right now, I think I will be able to reach this goal in the next year or so. I really got into photography while at the W. I took 3 semesters of 35mm photography with Professor Shawn Dickey and FELL IN LOVE with dark room processing. I love the rawness of it. Although dark room photography is slowly dying, my love for photography just keeps growing. I have only been in business for a little over a year now and have exceeded my expectations with how fast it has progressed in such a short amount of time.  I also just took a huge leap and will be showcasing my business at the Mid-South Bridal Expo once each season next year, my first one being in January. This is a HUGE step in the right direction for me.” 

Ashley’s work is varied “I shoot weddings, engagements, bridals, family, maternity, newborn, seniors and trash the dress sessions.  I offer large poster prints, coffee table books in a variety of sizes and styles, proof portfolios, and I also design wedding, graduation, save the date, and shower invitations as well!”

Like other artist, photographers have their own styles.  Regarding her style, Ashley explained “What I love most, is shooting on location.  Studio portraits are so posed and so unreal to me. I have dozens of locations that I love to use for shoots and I find new locations to add to my growing list almost daily. Right now, I shoot with all natural lighting, which I LOVE!”  

While pictures in one form or another are all you can get from some photographers, Ashley has another talent.  “I also have a degree in Graphic Design.  I have a lot of people that come to me to design their birth announcements.  I  design wedding invitations as well as many other things. I love the fact that the two jobs work hand in hand and that I can do both things that I love.”  

As a photographer, Ashley’s goals are simple. “I want my clients to be themselves and have fun during their sessions. Most importantly, I want people to feel joy and satisfaction when they view their photos for the first time. I describe my photography as bold, fun, real, energetic, artistic and extremely edgy.”

Strike-a-Pose Photography is a family business.  Ashley is the photographer.  Her husband, Derrick does the website design and "helps support my outrageous spending habits on new photography equipment and props (Because almost daily I find a new prop that I CAN NOT live without)" says Ashely.  Her son, Chandler, she explains "is my practice model.  Any time I want to practice something new with lighting or a new prop , I use him as my guinea pig.  He is a great sport about it and LOVES being the center of attention just like his mom and dad." 
To see more of Ashley’s work and for contact information, see her website.  

All photos in this post were taken by Ashley.  Doesn’t she do beautiful work?  Isn't Chandler a handsome young man?

Friday, August 13, 2010

Moving In Day


Ah, that yearly ritual of moving college students into their dorm rooms....remember the overloaded cars, the tired Dads, the tearful Moms, the excited friends.  This year Move-In Day at The W is August 15.  If you are in the area, Wesley is looking for volunteers, and for water.  The MUW Alumni Association (the official affiliated group) has said it will be helping students and giving out water as well.  The photo is Madeleine Gardiner, who will be a Sophomore this year, on last year's Move-In Day.

I asked for people's memories of Move-In Day when they were students.

 I moved to MUW with a friend from high school - we were roomies in Calloway Hall.  I remember thinking when we packed up a trailer with our stuff that we'd brought far too much, but then was stunned to realize that some girls had brought a trailer full of just their own stuff.


I was an Orientation Leader my Sophomore, Junior & Senior years at The W, and those years, just like my own Freshman Move-In Day were memorable for the constant buzz of excitement across the campus.  Meeting new friends, starting off on new adventures, bridging that gap between childhood and adulthood, created a palpable energy that I always found invigorating.  Neely Woods Hunter, '95



Wow...so long ago yet seems like just yesterday! 


I went to the W in the fall of 1983 with my dear friend from high school. I don't know how I would have made it without her.


It didn't take us long to move our stuff into our room in Calloway on the 3rd floor. Home for us was just up the road in Monroe county so we knew we would be going back almost every weekend.


We were very coordinated with matching bedspreads and curtains. We had a large piece of pink carpeting that was a scrap given to us by our small town flooring guy.  We had a full size refrigerator in our room - an old one my dad repainted. It seems like lots of folks on the hall keep stuff in that refrigerator.  The room was huge.


We got rid of the refrigerator the spring semester so we could move into a small room with a private bath!


I have great memories of those sweet girls from Calloway and the fall of 1983. Michelle Byars Gray '87



My freshmen year I had an entourage come to help me move in: My mom with her Durango loaded down, my grandparents bringing a few things in their pickup, a couple of my guy friends from high school coming to help and me with my car loaded.  My grandparents beat me by about ten minutes and Mom was a little bit behind me.  Since Mom and Grandmother were W girls and I had been there the week before to paint, we had no trouble finding where we needed to be, but the boys got so lost that I had to run out to the car to get my new Columbus map so we could tell them how to get to campus. When we started to unload in front of Callaway, a swarm of Lockharts just descended and started helping take my stuff up to the 3rd floor. Between all the help from campus and my folks, we had everything unloaded in about 30 minutes. After that was the requisite trip to Walmart for groceries and supplies.


I was in SAA every year I was at the W which came with the perk that I got to move in early so we could help with official Move In Day. I think we got more organized as time went on with unloading zones around the buildings so we could keep things moving.   Erin Gioia 2007


The big thing was that it was beastly hot and I had to move to the second floor of Peyton. My dad and mom came to help, and I was afraid my dad was going to have a heart attack from carrying all my heavy stuff since there wasn't an elevator. I was happy to be coming to school, but it was much harder on my parents. They had collected all my stuff for months in the "room that was too good for anybody except company." My dad called it "the staging area." I think it was difficult for them because I was only 16 at the time. My 17th birthday was in a week. Part of the reason they wanted me to come to the W was to keep me away from boys . (They weren't counting on Sandra Day O'Connor!)Laura Amundson 1984


When I think of Move-In Day, I remember two in particular.  My Freshman year my dad brought me and my stuff up from Long Beach.  No one I knew was going to The W and while in some ways I liked the idea of a new start, it was kind of scary once he left me alone--but it didn't take long for me to realize that there were people who cared. Before dinner than night I had messages from my admissions rep and from Marian Lion, who had been my Beta Club sponsor in junior high, and who was then working in the Alumnae Office.  Linda Elliott, who I did not know, but whose mom was friends with my parents, banged on my door and told me to call her if I needed anything.  Shortly thereafter, my SIA big sister showed up.  



The next year I volunteered to be a big sister and was given the name of Laura Amundson from Brandon Mississippi.  I sent her a letter during the summer, and then on Move-In day, dropped by to see her.  As she said, both her parents were there and they were all talking.  They seemed nice enough, but they sure didn't sound like they were from Brandon, Mississippi, and I told them so.  They said they were from a small town in Wisconsin, a small town just down the road from the small town in which my Mom was raised, and where I'm related to half the town.  I told them that my mother was from Durand, and Laura mentioned that her uncle married a woman from Durand.  It turns out that woman  was my mother's first cousin and one of the few whose name I'd know.  Ruth Wilz Curcuru '83

Monday, August 2, 2010

Congratulations, Michelle Wescovich Daugherty!

2007 MUW alumna Michelle Wescovich married Charles ("Charlie") Daugherty on July 31, 2010, at the Singing River Yacht Club in Pascagoula, MS.


Michelle was attended by childhood friend Melissa McDonald Coker, who served as matron of honor, and Leigh-Ann Thornhill (also MUW '07), who served as maid of honor. Charlie's groomsmen were his brother, Robin Daugherty, and Michelle's son, Jarod Wescovich, 16, who also walked his mother down the aisle. Michelle's adopted son, Jamie Stumph, 17, served as usher. The flower girl was Bella Kendrick, 2, and the ringbearer was Charlie's nephew, Peyton Daugherty, 4.


The wedding was attended by almost a dozen W girls from Michelle's years at the school, including some of her sisters from the D'Belles social club. From left to right in the photo above: D'Belles Leigh-Ann Thornhill, Megan Roberts Becnel ('09), Michelle, Sanzettra Frazier (attended '06-'07), Jennifer Ford (attended '06-'08), and Katy Gray ('07).

Michelle and Charlie are very grateful to all their family and friends for making their special day as memorable as possible!




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Friday, July 2, 2010

Fur Baby Friday

Carrie Pate ('07) recently adopted Sophy, a Boston terrier. Her name is inspired by a character in Georgette Heyer's novel The Grand Sophy.


 Sophy is Carrie's graduation present from her parents, as she just completed her MSW at UGA.


Carrie is training adorable little Sophy to serve with her as a therapy dog!


Fur Baby Friday runs on the first Friday of every month. If you would like to see your fur baby featured, please send photos to mfaeablog@gmail.com.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Board Member Spotlight: Erin Gioia ('07)

Name: Erin Gioia
Class year: 2007
Major: Double major, MIS and Accounting


In which extracurricular activities did you participate at the W? 
I was the founding treasurer of the Bukwyrms book club, treasurer of Phi Beta Lambda (2 years), president of the TVA Investment Club, and member of Student Alumni Ambassadors, Wesley Foundation, IMA, SWI Club, Mortar Board, Delta Mu Delta (business honorary), and Phi Kappa Phi.  I also served on the College of Business Dean Student Selection Committee; was an intern in Institutional Research; and was awarded the College of Business Spirit Award.  

Tell us a little about your job history.
While at the W, I worked in the computer lab as the front desk worker.  Since graduation, I have worked as a reconcilement associate at a major regional bank.

When did you first become involved as a W Alum? What has your involvement entailed over the years?
I have been a member of the Birmingham chapter of the MFAeA since I was a student and am a member of the Stitchers and GDI e-chapters.  I have been on the Technology/Information Management committee since 2009 where I mostly serve as the Facebook Tech for the MFAeA Facebook fan page. 

What is your office this year? 
This is my first year of my three-year term as a Director for the Board.

What can the average alumna or alumnus who isn't really a "joiner" do to support the university?  
One very important way that is sometimes overlooked is to just tell people about the W.  First off, you never know when someone one nearby will say, "Hey I went there!" or "Hey, my [relative] went there," and that will just start the whole conversation off again.  W alums are everywhere and it's a wonderful experience to find those connections in places you never expect to find them. 

Second, because the W is such a small school, it's hard to get the word out to all the people who will excel in its environment without the help of the vast alumni network.  How can potential students in places far removed from Columbus know that they should go to the W if they've never heard of it? By just mentioning your alma mater, you are educating people that she exists, and you never know when the opportunity will present itself to allow you to share the awesome things the W has to offer with a potential new student. 

Thursday, June 17, 2010

Alumnus Derrick Young, Stay-at-Home Dad


Today we are going to get to know Derrick Young (MUW 2004-2006). Derrick is a stay-at-home dad to Chandler Young, age 1, and husband to Ashley (MUW 2007).

Derrick worked as a boiler operator at the W for five years and attended classes the last two. He then got a marketing degree from MSU. He also has worked in sales.

When Chandler was born, the Youngs decided that Derrick should stay home, both to save on daycare expenses and to allow Chandler to have one-on-one time with his dad. By then, Ashley had already established her career, and it made more sense for Derrick to be the caregiver. At this point, says Derrick, "There is a great balance and everyone is happy with our arrangement." Ashley is a Graphic Designer for Mid-South Signs in Memphis, TN. She and Derrick also own their own photography business, which they run together: Strike-A-Pose Photography. Derrick handles the advertising and website upkeep.

Derrick loves never missing a "first" from Chandler, like his first word, first step, and first smile. "I was there to see it all, which is priceless," he says. "The hardest thing for me is trying to get outside work done and housework done while watching Chandler. Children require so much attention and the day is up before you know it, with nothing getting done. But it's worth all of it just to be with him all day," Derrick adds. At this point, Derrick plans to stay home until Chandler starts pre-K, and he hasn't decided what the future holds at that point.

Even though he considers fatherhood his main job now, Derrick says, "I use the marketing knowledge gained at MUW daily with the photography business, and getting the word out to potential clients." His knowledge of web design allows him to keep their websites up and going and updated at all times.


When asked what advice he would give to current Mississippi University for Women students who think they'd like to stay home with their kids, Derrick replies, "It's a very rewarding experience, and a great opportunity to spend special time with your child. Chandler will be graduating college before we know it, even though he is only one year old right now, but these moments with him are priceless and I could not imagine spending my day any other way than with him."

Friday, May 28, 2010

Congratulations, Carrie Pate!

Photo courtesy of Trisha Pate

Carrie Pate ('07) graduated from MUW with degrees in psychology and English (with an emphasis in creative writing). While on campus, Carrie served as a mentor for the Ina E. Gordy Honors College (2005-2007) and participated in a vast array of activities on campus, including Mortar Board, Phi Kappa Phi, Sigma Tau Delta, Psi Chi, Alpha Psi Omega, Psychology Club, Mission Improv-able, MUW theater, Columbus Community theater, Midnight Writers, Bukwyrms (where she served as co-founder/president), Hearin Council, the Southern Women's Institute, Wesley, Spanish Club, and her own radio show on WMUW.

After taking a year to work for her mentor as an assistant at an outpatient counseling center, Carrie enrolled in the MSW (Master's in Social Work) program at the University of Georgia. And earlier this month, after two years of hard work, Carrie received her Master's degree!

Now that she has completed school (at least for the time being), Carrie will be living on the Coast and working at Gulf Coast Family Counseling Agency as a therapist and resident forensic social worker. As she explains, "Basically, this means that I am a therapist working with adults, teens, children, families, couples, and individuals (i.e. anyone for anything) on an outpatient basis. Also, I will take any clients with legal charges, and I'm slowly working into the realm of forensic social work (expert witnessing, collaborative divorce, alternative sentences, and mitigation) as I progress in experience."

Carrie begins working in June. In the meantime, she says, "I'm in the preliminary stages of house shopping here on the Coast. I'm also currently training my Boston Terrier puppy and future therapy dog, [The Grand] Sophy. I also plan to be writing, blogging, and enjoying having free time now that I'm taking a break from grad school." Carrie eventually plans to return to the rigors of postgraduate work. "I want to go back and get my doctorate in psychology (probably cognitive or social), but I plan to work and get my independent license at least before I do even more school." She is also interested in pursuing another Master's degree, circumstances permitting: "If MUW ever gets its MFA in Creative Writing program, I'm there (hint, hint, powers that be)!" 

When asked how the W prepared her for life after college, Carrie professes that she doesn't quite know where to start. "What surprised me was that EVERYTHING I did at the W prepared me, including Hearin ice breaker games (who knew?).  Improv was a huge help: thank you, Peppy [MUW theater Professor William Biddy]." She adds, "More than anything, though, was my ability to think and speak for myself. My double major prepared me to make an argument, do research, put it together, and be thorough in ways that really made my program easier. It made me outspoken and not afraid to talk to professors or participate in class. Working with different people in the various areas of MUW for numerous different activities really helped me be flexible, versatile, and kept me from being overwhelmed. Also, I had no fear of advocating or getting answers from major administrators and direct superiors, which any social work intern at a state agency will tell you is really important." Carrie concludes, "I could go on forever. Every day, I found something from the W that got me through my program. My undergraduate education more than prepared me for my work before grad school, my program, and my internships"

Upon enrolling in graduate school, Carrie noticed many striking differences between MUW and the much larger UGA. "The biggest thing was probably the professors," she explains. "The relationship with MUW professors is unbelievable, and I knew that before I left, but I didn't realize how much until I went to a bigger program. That much availability, and the level of teaching itself, is unsurpassed. I had a few really awesome professors at UGA, but I found myself saying that they were great and could be W professors. MUW is my gold standard."

In addition to the difference in faculty relationships, Carrie notes that the size of the two schools played a large part in how students interact with one another. "UGA is obviously huge, while MUW isn't. Huge suits some people, and small suits others. They are completely different, culturally speaking, and it's more than just the stereotype of being 'impersonal.' What's more, particularly on the graduate level, there is much less mingling between the majors. Unless you just happen to know someone, you mostly interact with people in your own department. I did spend some time with people in a few different majors and from that discovered that each department very, very much has its own personality. At MUW, I had friends in literally every major, because it was so easy to participate in various activities with a myriad of people from different majors. The community it created was very different from UGA."

As for now, Carrie says she is glad to finally be home on the Coast: "I'm excited to be back down here and working at a job I love!"

Congratulations, Carrie, and best of luck as you begin your new career!

Friday, May 7, 2010

Fur Baby Friday

This month we are meeting the Fur Babies of Ashley and Derrick Young.  Ashley is a 2007 graduate of Mississippi University for Women, and Derrick attended from 2004 to 2007.
These beauties are Oliver Matthew and Carter Guido

She certainly looks comfortable.  Her name is Mrs. Chloe Isabella.

Life must not be all bad for this fur baby!  Onyx Kemper is his name.

We'd like to feature you and your fur baby sometime soon!  Please send me photos of the fur baby(ies) and  you at mfaeablog@gmail.com  Fur Baby Friday will be the first Friday of every month, unless we get enough photos to run it more often.

Monday, May 3, 2010

SAHM Profile: Michelle Wescovich ('07)


After spending years as a paralegal in south Mississippi, Michelle Wescovich graduated from MUW in 2007 with a BS in paralegal studies. While at the W, Michelle was a part of the Ina E. Gordy Honors College, and she participated in other activities such as D'Belles, Bench and Gavel, Spanish Club, and Phi Theta Kappa. Though her original goal was to go on to law school, Michelle decided to return to the paralegal profession after graduation. But due to a debilitating accident two years ago, Michelle was forced to leave the workplace, and she became a stay-at-home mom to son Jarod, 16, currently a sophomore in high school. Now she is pursuing a new goal: obtaining her Master's degree. Michelle is currently enrolled at San Jose State University in the online Master's of Library and Information Science program.

Being a SAHM was never a part of her plans, but it has turned out to be a blessing for Michelle and her son. "Being at home allows me to watch my son grow in school and his social life," she says. "Jarod participates in JROTC, and I am able to volunteer my time to chaperone field trips and attend all of his meets and events." In fact, Michelle has become something of a "second mom" to many of the JROTC students at Jarod's school, and her house is always filled with the raucous sounds of boisterous teenagers.

When asked what she enjoys the most about being a SAHM, Michelle replies, "I like having the time to take care of my family and make sure that they're comfortable. I've always enjoyed doing that, but now I'm not half as stressed as I used to be in trying to keep up with everything." Still, her graduate studies and volunteering at Jarod's school keep her constantly busy. "Some days I still don't have enough time to do everything I want to do!"

Michelle, a longtime single mother, recently became engaged to Charles ("Charlie") Daugherty, a team leader at Chevron. The two, who have known each other since high school, reconnected last summer. Their wedding will take place at the Grand Magnolia Bed and Breakfast in Pascagoula in February 2011, where Jarod will walk his mother down the aisle and serve as a groomsman.

Michelle, Charlie, and Jarod have also recently welcomed a couple of rambunctious new additions to their family: two Chihuahua puppies, Spike and Gracie.


To W students who may consider forgoing the workplace in favor of home life, Michelle says, "If that is your choice, I wholeheartedly encourage you to do it! It's very rewarding to be able to watch your child go through all of the milestones and to see their progress firsthand. I never realized how much I missed when I worked full-time." She credits her time at MUW for providing her with the opportunity to pursue her dreams while staying at home with Jarod. "I always thought I would go to law school, but being at the W showed me there were so many different paths my future could take. I can be at home with my son and still succeed in my graduate classes. I don't have to choose one or the other--I can have both!"

In the meantime, Michelle encourages her son, who is beginning his college search, to consider the W for all it has to offer. "Jarod, who stayed with my mother during my two years at the W so he wouldn't have to leave his friends or his school, came to visit me on campus often, and he really enjoyed spending time there. I think the W can offer him many of the same benefits it offered me: the chance to build leadership skills, a safe educational environment, and a personalized relationship with the faculty. It's on his list of schools, so perhaps one day we'll have a Wescovich legacy at the W!"