Thursday, March 31, 2011

More Girl Scout Alumnae

Michele Perry Barnard, Class of 1983 was a Brownie for about a year. "All I remember is the initiation ceremony and how cool it was." As an adult, Michele served as a Brownie leader for her daughter's troop for a year, but had to disband after her co-leader moved and nobody else would help.

Carrie Pate Class of 2007 told us "I was in Girl Scouts from the first grade as a Brownie, through part of high school as a Cadette, maybe a Senior. I did training to be a camp counselor, but I never had the chance to work as one." Carrie earned the Leadership Award pin and still remembers the work involved in that lengthy application. She switched troops several times, because of disbanding, and for a while joined her younger sister's Brownie troop as a "junior assistant" to have somewhere to participate.

Michelle Amato, Class of 1993 spent eight years as a Girl Scout, starting when she moved to Mississippi in Fifth Grade My troop went on some fantastic trips - snow skiiing in Colorado, Florida one year,etc.- still friends with my troop members. She worked at Camp Cedar Point one summer in college and served as a troop leader in Greenwood for 6 years. Michelle tells us "My daughters were in my troop and we had some great times, great memories together created by Girl Scouting. We camped out, went to a Halloween Camp at Cedar Point,  and to Mom and Me Camp at Cedar Point.


Paulette Bernheim Garton, who graduated from the W in 1969 remembers "So many years ago, but I loved it. I don't remember the Troop Number, but it was through our school, St. John Elementary, Jr. High and High School (which doesn't exist anymore). My favorite times were attending Girl Scout Camp Live Oak in Gulfport, Mississippi.  I also attended a day camp in Jackson, MS. I still remember the songs and campfires and Girl Scout cookies and Kool-aid for mid-afternoon snack."

Class of 1961 MUW alumna Kay Moseley White was a Girl Scout in West Point until she graduated High School in 1957. "Our Troup 13 was led by a wonderful and faithful leader, Mrs. Vaughn Grisham, who guided us to do many civic projects in West Point, to attend the National Girl Scout Roundup in Pontiac, MI, and to be grateful Girl Scout alumnae!"

Day 59 - Girl Scout Cookies
Photo Compliments of Barb Watson
Carolyn Wood Pope, MUW Class of 1968, remembers being a Brownie and a Girl Scout for at least 4 years in Arkansas.   She told us "My last year I was recognized as selling the most boxes of Girl Scout Cookies!  Cookies were only 50 cents a box!  I loved scouts. My leader always had great ideas and kept us interested in learning new things and doing things for others."  As an adult, Carolyn helped her daughter's troop as a mother cookie chairman, where I assume she passed her cookie selling techniques on to a new generation.  She also would go on overnight camping trips with the troop to Camp Tik-a-Witha Girl Scout Camp.

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Girl Scout Alumna Mary Libby Bickerstaff Payne

Judge Mary Libby Bickerstaff Payne, who was at The W in the 1950's, spent four or five years as a Girl Scout.  "I never made it to Halo, but I had a whole sash full of badges.  I remember the one on glass most because my uncle Jesse Littleton, Vice President of Corning Glass Works, sent me a huge folder of information from which to write my paper."

1940's Girl Scout Uniform

Mary Libby has one of those "Where were you when" memories that involves Girl Scouts:  "The thing I remember most, however, was being at Girl Scout camp when all of us were called to the flagpole.  We were all told to kneel and pray for our troops. That day was what history records as D-Day, and our Scout leader's husband was a soldier involved in the invasion. I guess I was a Scout the whole duration of World War II from Sept. 1941 through to V-J-Day just before I entered high school."




Mary Libby and I share one thing in common--neither one of us had an easy time learning to tie a square knot, nevertheless, Mary Libby tell us "As I recall, I really liked everything about scouting."

Macrame square knot
She was never a troop leader as an adults as she only had sons.  However for several years she spoke on panels for Career Days sponsored by Girl Scouts and on the 75th anniversary, Mary Libby was honored as one of Mississippi's 75 most outstanding former Girl Scouts.  Modest as always, Mary Libby said "I guess it is immodest to mention that, but I felt highly honored."

I'd feel honored too, Mary Libby, and congratulate you on behalf of Mississippi's First Alumnae Association.

Friday, March 25, 2011

Friday Favorites: Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?

The passing of Elizabeth Taylor this week at the age of 79 marks, in many ways, the end of an era. She was not the last living star of the "Golden Age" of Hollywood, but she was one of the brightest, a woman admired not only for her spectacular beauty and acting talent, but for her humanitarian work and dedication to charitable causes.


In a career that spanned seven decades, Taylor made an indelible mark in dozens of films. She was the young girl with a fierce love for her beloved horse in 1944's National Velvet; the spoiled Amy March in the 1949 version of Little Women; a new bride whose father almost loses his mind--and his life savings--hosting her nuptials in 1950's Father of the Bride; Montgomery Clift's beautiful obsession in 1951's A Place in the Sun; the young blue-blooded bride of a Texas rancher in the sprawling Giant (1956); the fiery, determined Maggie the Cat in Cat on a Hot Tin Roof (1958); a disillusioned call girl in 1960's Butterfield 8, which provided Taylor with her first Oscar for Best Actress; and, perhaps most notoriously of all, the manipulative, beautiful titular queen of 1963's lavish spectacle Cleopatra.

Taylor's filmography is impressive, but her best role, by far, took the actress out of her comfort zone, frumped her up, and set her glamorous persona on fire. That movie, 1966's Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf?, is not only Taylor's greatest performance, but, I would argue, one of the best female performances in the history of cinema.

In this film, based on the play by Edward Albee, Taylor and perennial partner (and two-time husband) Richard Burton play a viciously combative couple–he a professor of history, she the daughter of the university president. Martha is a drunkard who constantly belittles George (but lest you feel sorry for him, he dishes it right back). In the midst of their marital battles, Martha invites a young couple, Nick and Honey (George Segal and Sandy Dennis), to join them late one evening for cocktails. The ensuing night brings forth disturbing revelations, violent outbursts, and heartbreaking truths from all four characters.


Taylor is ferocious in the role. There’s really no other word for it. She throws her entire being into this character, wrestles it down to the ground, and emerges victorious. It’s a triumph–and a performance for which she deservedly won her second Academy Award for Best Actress.

And it’s a role for which virtually no one thought she was suited, given her screen persona as one of the most beautiful women in the world. Martha, the shrewish, homely, fifty-something hausfrau, was a role originally intended for Bette Davis, but the box-office draw of Taylor’s name ultimately won her the part. Taylor gained thirty pounds and thoroughly transformed herself, ultimately winning the respect of the original play’s author, Albee, who had championed Davis for the part.


Burton and Taylor’s romance was legendary in Hollywood, not only because of their heated passion (so evident in their first pairing, the so-bad-it’s-good Cleopatra), but because of the contentious nature of their union. By all accounts, the two of them fought constantly over even the smallest of issues. At the time Taylor and Burton fell in love, each was married to another–Taylor to fourth husband Eddie Fisher, whom she had “stolen” from Debbie Reynolds five years prior (creating quite the scandal). After divorcing their respective spouses, Burton and Taylor tied the knot in 1964, but divorced ten years later. In 1975, they gave marriage another shot, but separated again only nine months later.

Over the years, many a critic has claimed that the effectiveness of Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf? owes a great deal to the antagonistic relationship between its two stars, postulating that George and Martha’s relationship is an uncomfortably accurate mirror of the real-life relationship between Taylor and Burton. And it’s an easy assumption to make. But to give credence to such a theory belies the immense talent and hard work that so obviously went into each actor’s characterization of their respective role. There’s much more at work in this film than merely reflecting reality. Besides, that would make it much too easy for the couple, and nothing about this film or their performances screams “easy.”


Incidentally, this was the first film in Hollywood history for which all of its credited actors–all four of them–were nominated for acting awards, and the two women won (Taylor for Best Actress, Dennis for Best Supporting Actress).

If you’re feeling up for two hours of pure dysfunction, this is the movie for you. In all seriousness, it is a marvelously staged, thought-provoking film that may just have you questioning the own secrets in your life and your relationships. At the very least, the denouement of this movie will leave you feeling introspective, and maybe a little exhausted–just watching the interplay between these characters is an emotional upheaval of the highest degree.


Therein lies the beauty of Albee, and the sheer strength of Taylor’s tour de force performance.

On Sunday, April 10th, Turner Classic Movies will host a 24-hour tribute to Taylor, showing eleven films from her repertoire including Woolf (10PM EST). It's a great chance to see a wide range of Taylor's on-screen abilities, so set your DVR and make sure to sit down and catch some of these great classics.

Godspeed, Elizabeth. The skies over Hollywoodland are a little dimmer, now that you're gone.

Parts of this post were originally published at True Classics: The ABCs of Classic Film.

Friday Favorites is an opportunity for MUW alums to share reviews, formal or informal, of books, movies, plays, concerts, or other forms of entertainment.  Please send your reviews to mfaeablog@gmail.com.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Girl Scout Alumna Jill Bethune Wood

Jill Bethune Wood, MUW Class of 1965 began as a Brownie Scout when she was in the second grade in Hattiesburg. "We then moved to Jackson where I stayed with the same troop until we graduated from High School. I attended WAHI Scout Camp every summer from the 7th grade through the 12th grade."

After graduation, while living in Columbus,  Jill took over as leader of a Cadette Troop and stayed with them until they graduated to Seniors. Basically, she was a Girl Scout from age seven through twenty-five.  Jill told us "I would have to say that, aside from the W, being involved in Scouting had the greatest non-family influence on my life. My closest friends and I were Scouts and I was involved in many areas from service projects to camping. I attended International Round Up in Colorado Springs in 1958, traveling from Jackson to the camp site on a train along with fellow campers. That experience alone would fill a book of remembrances!"



This is a video found via web search that will show what Jill experienced

Jill continued "Six summers of camping at WAHI, my very first paid job at Middle Mississippi GS Council, service projects in the pediatric ward at University Medical Center, volunteering with the Ground Observer Corps -- all these greatly influenced the person I am today. By coincidence, the attorney I have worked for since 1986, is the attorney for the local Girl Scout Council so I'm still immersed in Scouting, just in a different way!"

Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Photo of the Week: 1968 Basketball Team


Thanks to Dr. Joan Thomas for this photo of MUW's 1968 Basketball team.  Dr. Thomas and several other emerita professors are compiling a book about the MUW athletic program.  Click here for information about how you can help.  

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Jeannette Stone: Once a Girl Scout, Always a Girl Scout

Jeannette Stone, who received degrees from MUW in 1995 and in 2008, is the first Girl Scout being profiled in this series about MUW alumnae who are or were Girl Scouts.  Both MUW and GSUSA believe that women can and should be leaders.  MUW Interim President, Allegra Brigham is hosting a reception Sunday April 17 (Homecoming weekend) from 2-4 at the President's Home for all area alumnae of Girl Scouts.  A very special guest will be one of Girl Scouting's 100th Anniversary Honorary Chairs, MUW alumna Elizabeth Smith Gwin, Class of 1930.  GSUSA will be 100 years old in 2012.  In connection with this celebration, this blog will spend the next few weeks profiling MUW Alumnae who are or were members of GSUSA.  If you'd like to participate, please click here and complete the form.

Jeannete started her Girl Scout years as a first year Junior and thoroughly enjoyed being a member until she graduated from high school as a Senior in Reelfoot Girl Scout Council in Jackson, TN. 

Jeannette attended Girl Scout Camp Hazlewood in Springville, TN for 9 years - five as a camper and four as a counselor.  I also spent two summers as a counselor at the area daycamp.   "All together I would say I was a registered member for 15 years, but my mantra is 'Once a Girl Scout always a Girl Scout--even the four years I volunteered with the Boy Scouts, at heart I was a Girl Scout."
About her favorite part of Girl Scouting, camping, Jeannette said "I love all kinds of camping from primitive to cabins, but mostly summer camp, because in summer camp you can meet Girl Scouts from all over your council and some times from other councils and states.  Also, because it is one place you can stay in the woods all day everyday and everyone thinks it is perfectly normal."

While many girls drop out of Girl Scouts before high school, it is during the high school years that Girl Scouts offers some of the most interesting programs. " One of my favorite times in Scouting was the summer I was 15 and got the honor of going on a Wider Opportunity in Florida with seven other girls from my council.  What a blast!  Girl Scouting brought me to the place were I met the three closest friends I have ever had and that in itself is my most treasured memory." Jeannette told us.  
Jeannette has given back to the program which gave so much to her.  "My first experience as a leader was on staff at Girl Scout Camp Hazlewood in Springville, Tennessee where I was on staff for the summers from 1976 through 1979.  I was the assistant leader for the Northside Cadette troop in Jackson, TN for four years in the Late 70's and then a Troop leader for a Junior Troop in Jackson, TN from 1984 to 1986.  I served as a parent committee member for a troop in Columbus, Mississippi  for a year in 2006-2007."

"As a young leader and a staff member at summer camp I saw the wonders of the outdoor world come alive in young girls eyes and could share my love of Scouting and the outdoors with them" explained Jeannette.  "My favorite group to work with were the Cadettes.  They were always the most eager to learn and sometimes the most complex."  

When asked for a memorable story, Jeannette replied "One year when I was Assistant Leader and it was Cadette Little Roundup time there were only three girls from our troop who could attend and the leader was tied up with another obligaiton. In addition there were no Girl Scout tents available.  The three girls were very disappointed that they were not going to get to go, so I loaded them up, and took them with borrowed Boy Scout tents.  It rained the entire weekend and all our tents except one leaked terribly, but we had a wonderful time.  The girls learned to build a fire in the rain and we huddled in the one tent at night and learned about making the best of an uncomfortable situation and being considerate of one another.  We talked about some of the challenges facing them at their age and yes we got wet, but the girls did not seem to care.  They talked about the trip for months afterward.  Moments like that are what make being a Girl Scout Leader such a joy."  

Friday, March 18, 2011

Friday Favorites: The Help

The Help

About the Book:

Three ordinary women are about to take one extraordinary step.

Twenty-two-year-old Skeeter has just returned home after graduating from Ole Miss. She may have a degree, but it is 1962, Mississippi, and her mother will not be happy till Skeeter has a ring on her finger. Skeeter would normally find solace with her beloved maid Constantine, the woman who raised her, but Constantine has disappeared and no one will tell Skeeter where she has gone.

Aibileen is a black maid, a wise, regal woman raising her seventeenth white child. Something has shifted inside her after the loss of her own son, who died while his bosses looked the other way. She is devoted to the little girl she looks after, though she knows both their hearts may be broken.

Minny, Aibileen's best friend, is short, fat, and perhaps the sassiest woman in Mississippi. She can cook like nobody's business, but she can't mind her tongue, so she's lost yet another job. Minny finally finds a position working for someone too new to town to know her reputation. But her new boss has secrets of her own.

Seemingly as different from one another as can be, these women will nonetheless come together for a clandestine project that will put them all at risk. And why? Because they are suffocating within the lines that define their town and their times. And sometimes lines are made to be crossed.

In pitch-perfect voices, Kathryn Stockett creates three extraordinary women whose determination to start a movement of their own forever changes a town, and the way women--mothers, daughters, caregivers, friends--view one another. A deeply moving novel filled with poignancy, humor, and hope, The Help is a timeless and universal story about the lines we abide by, and the ones we don't.

Comments:
Rather than a formal review, this post will consist of snippets of a conversation on an email list of MUW alums.

Someone on here recommended The Help a while back.  On your recommendation, I put the book on hold at my library.  I waited and waited.  Then, one day, I walk in and there it is on the "featured" shelf, so I picked it up.  I was already reading a different library book, so I waited a few weeks before I started.  Last Saturday, I FINALLY cracked it open, realizing that it's due THIS Saturday.  Well, I finished the book last night.  That's saying a lot, because I am a super slow reader.  If I can't see and hear everything that's going on in my head, then I have a hard time grasping what I'm reading (textbooks were HELL for me!).  Anyway, I thoroughly enjoyed this book and may even buy my own copy.  I love having a personal connection to the names of stores and other locations in books.  I feel like I'm in on a secret (that this is real!). ---Nikki Seabaugh

I still think about the book often.  I was so moved by the message that small acts often require the most courage.  Telling one's story, telling the TRUTH, should never be grounds for punishment and should never be a cause for fear of retaliation.  I also loved that it was the women -- not the men -- who stepped forward and took a stand.  So many powerful messages and themes in that book.--- Kym Gore
 
 I LOVE this book. It captures the tension between help and employer and the love that was often there, as well. You see the tightrope walk it was for both groups during the beginning of the Civil Rights Movement. At the same time, it is full of laugh out loud moments. The end left me in tears and wanting to know what's next. It doesn't end in a neat fashion with all loose ends tied up. That fits the subject matter well and is more realistic.---Lynne Schneider

I loved the book.  I thought that since the author is so young (40ish) she must have done marvelous research to have her characters ring so true.  I remember the era that the book covers and I found it to be amazingly accurate.  Obviously, it doesn't put many of us in a very good light as white Southerners, but we were living in an environment that we grew up in without giving much thought to how these practices affected the servants that worked in our homes.---Donette Lee

Those of us who grew up in Mississippi in the 50s and 60s can remember just how it was.  This author gets it right.---Donette Lee

Though I was raised in Jackson in the 60's, I felt it was not a representation of the Jackson I lived in. I enjoyed it, however, and loved the references to the places I knew. Well, my Mother who has, according to her own admission, never read a book for pleasure (spent a lot of time with textbooks, though) informed me the other day that she was going to read a book. This book received a rave review in the Cedarfield newsletter. Mother had also just talked with her best Jackson friend and she had told Mother that the book was all the rage in Jackson. Mother said, "you remember the Stocketts from Jackson, don't you?"  ...pause ... "Mother, do you mean "The Help? I'm reading it now."  I gave her my copy and she has let several friends read it. Then in September, my sister and brother-in-law were here and saw the book on Mother's bedside table, and they both started reading it--so now my very well-traveled book in somewhere in Maryland!---Jill Wood

As often happens, the conversation took at "W" turn:

I do have one little story to tell -- when Skeeter goes to the newspaper for the first time and the secretary walks into the other office with a cigarette dangling from her hand, I said -- ALOUD -- "What?  She's walking AND smoking?!"  Then LAUGHED OUT LOUD when the next sentence said, "Despite my nerves, all I can think of is the old college rule, A Chi Omega never walks with a cigarette."  I thought the author should have made her a W girl!--Nikki Seabaugh

I recommended the book and I thought the same thing!  One nevah smokes, but if one does, one does not, and I repeat does not, walk or stand with a cigarette!  I'm channeling Gracie Hicks but I'm not sure!--Melinda Mabry-Scott

The prohibition against walking with a cigarette was in the rules handbook, not a mere suggestion from Mrs. Hicks! I wish I had my handbooks.  I have tried to recall the section on drinking and can't, but it was something like "...in accordance  with the laws of the State , remembering to always maintain the appearance of a lady".  I don't know which is funnier, the rules themselves or the way we accepted them without thinking there was anything strange about them.---Laurie Teague

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Calling all Golden Girls

One group always honored at Homecoming are those celebrating the 50th Anniversary of their graduation--The Golden Girls.  This year's Golden Girls graduated in 1961.  Below is a form which I'd like to have as many Golden Girls as possible complete.  As noted on the form, the results will be used to create blog posts in which we can all get to know these special alumnae.  If you know anyone in the Class of 1961, please send her a link to the post or the form.


If you are reading this on facebook and the form isn't there, or if you just want to send someone a link, the form can be completed at https://spreadsheets.google.com/viewform?formkey=dFNxNFc1MzVlZW9MbnNPalFaN0lublE6MQ

Thanks, and to all Golden Girls, please circulate this to your friends after you complete it.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

Photo of the Week

Drew Davis, daughter of Amy J. Davis, prepares to enter the  MUW Class of 2027

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

MFAeA's Homecoming Schedule

MUW's Homecoming is the weekend of April 15-17.  Mississippi's First Alumnae Association is hosting the following events:

Friday

3 pm Spring Board Meeting - MSMS Auditorium (old Hooper Science Hall) handicap accessible.

8 pm Homecoming Reception - Lee Home, 316 7th Street North, immediately following Theater Department's production of The Long Blue Line - honoring the Alumnae Achievement Award winners, the Golden Class of 1961, and the newest members of the the Long Blue Line, the Class of 2011.

Saturday

9:30 am Annual Business Meeting - MSMS Auditorium (old Hooper Science Hall) handicap accessible.

9 pm Young at Heart Party - location to be announced.

All Alumnae and Alumni are invited to all events, at no charge.  All are asked to register (click here) so that name tags can be prepared and so that we have a headcount for Friday night's reception.  

Monday, March 14, 2011

Meet the Candidates: Elaine Logan Evans

Elaine Logan Evans, who received her B.S. from MUW in 1970 and her M.S. in 1979 and who also has an Ed.D. from MSU is the candidate for President-Elect. 
Elaine is married to Robert and they are the proud parents of five children.  They now have seven grandchildren.  For Elaine, The W is part of the family as two of her sisters, three daughters, five nieces, one nephew, and several cousins are alums.  
About her W years, Elaine told us "I was a commuter after the freshman year, a member of Phi Beta Lambda and Town and Gown. I have worked at the W ever since my graduation and actually since I first enrolled.  I began work in the Summer of 1966 as a student worker in the Admissions office where I served as a campus tour guide and data entry clerk.  I worked as an accountant until 1986, and taught part-time from 1980-1986 when I began full-time teaching. I retired in June of 2004 and have taught as an adjunct in the fall semester. I have an accounting business and devote a lot of time to it."  
Elaine's goal as President-Elect is to guide Mississippi's First Alumnae Association towards a peaceful, productive relationship with the university.  About the W, Elaine says "It is my heritage...who I am and where I've been most of my life. It has been my life!"  
Elaine, MFAeA is blessed to have you as a candidate for President-Elect.  If anyone has any questions for Elaine, please leave them as comments to this post.

Meet the Candidates: Malinda Mabry Scott

Malinda Mabry Scott, who was a fashion merchandising major at MUW from 1974-1978, has agreed to serve on the MFAeA Board of Directors.  After leaving MUW, where she was a member of the Meh Ladies, Chapel Choir, Silhouettes and Black List, she received her BBA in Marketing from Austin Peay State University.  
Malinda is the owner of Malinda Mabry-Scott Transcription service, about which we learned here.
Malinda is married to Floyd Scott, Ph.D.,  Professor at Austin Peay State University, Center of Excellence in Field Biology.  Her son Fount Mabry Darnell and his wife Lydia are involved in the horse industry. Her daughter Emily Louise Darnell of  Culowhee NC, is finishing  a Masters of Arts in Composition and Rhetoric in May, 2011 and hopes to pursue her doctorate at UNC Greensboro.  Her pets are Marley (brown poodle), Max (apricot poodle and terrorizer) and Kosmo Kramer Kat, a 13 year old organe tabby and boss of all.
As a Board Member, it is her goal to promote the W as the wonderful educational institution that it has been in the past and will continue to be in the future.  As she told us "The Long Blue Line is an amazing thing! No matter where I go, and I mean, anywhere, I always meet someone who attended the W or whose mother, aunt, sister, cousin or daughter attended the W. There is an instant bond between W girls and guys! I see this as a wonderful legacy that MUW has given all of those who have attended."
Thank you Malinda for agreeing to serve in  this capacity.  If you have any questions for Malinda, please leave them as comments to this post.

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Meet the Candidates: Dustin Thompson

Dustin Thompson, MUW Class of 1993, has been nominated to serve as a member of the Board of Directors of Mississippi's First Alumnae Association.  Dusty, who received a BS in journalism/public relations from MUW, and  a MA in Education Administration from Ole Miss. 
While at the W he was named Man of the Year and elected to the Hall of Fame. He served as Meh Lady Editor and Spectator Production Manager. He was a member of Mortar Board, Delta Sigma Omega (President), Hottentots, Union Advisory Cabinet, and Student Alumnae Ambassadors. He served as a Resident Advisor, SGA Senator, and Assistant Student Director of the Miss W Pageant. He also belonged to the Art Students League, and the Chorale. Other honors included Campus Favorite, Who's Who Among American College Students, National Dean's List, and Outstanding Young Men of America. As an alum, Dusty has been a member of the Alumnae Association, Publicity Committee and has written for the MFAeA newsletter. 

Dusty is currently single and living in Alexandria, Virginia. He is the Director of Education for the Prosthetic and Sensory Aids Division of Veterans Health Administration. Besides being active in his church, Dusty works with the Board of Directors of the Miss DC pageant, and serves on the Board of Directors for the Leadership VA Alumni Association. Dusty is also a published author, and you can read about his book A Gone Pecan here. He is working on the sequel, Big Donkey Fool. 

When asked what he was most looking forward to when serving as a member of the MFAeA board, Dusty replied "I have wanted to take a more active role within MFAeA but felt that living outside Mississippi was a hindrance. Having attended homecoming the last few years has reignited my determination to help my beloved W; a place that helped make me who I am. I will always be indebted to my W family and this is one small way I can give back." 

About being a member of The Long Blue Line, Dusty had this to say about it's meaning: "It means that I am irrevocably intertwined in a network of intelligent, strong, focused women whose focus is and should remain that of educating the future female leaders of our state and nation. I was fortunate to be among the select males allowed entrance to this august body and am forever grateful for the positive influence that experience has had on me and my success. MUW is most definitely a jewel and I am singularly honored to be a part of it's preservation and future."

Meet the Candidates: Anne Swearingen

Anne Swearingen, Class of 1973 is a floor nominee for the office of director. Anne received her B.S., in Journalism from MUW and her MA from the University of Memphis.

As one three sisters who attended The W, (Lynn Swearing '76 and Jane Swearingen '74-'76), Anne feels forwever linked to "those who came before me and those who come after me in a shared experience that has no comparison. The W gave me more than I can ever give back and continues to do so through the friends I have made from different decades as well as those from my era. We share something special that permanently binds us to one another. It is my hope that my granddaughters will choose to go to MUW. Heaven knows I'll do one heckuva PR job to make it happen! (Elizabeth went to Homecoming with me two years ago and is still talking about it. She even learned to sing sis-a-boom-sis-a-boom-rah-rah-rah!)"

While at MUW, Anne participated in Mississippi Press Women, MSCW chapter Women in Communications, Inc., MSCW chapter, Spectator, Reveler Social Club and "other stuff I don't remember".

As an alumna, she has been involved with the original alumnae association under three names: MSCW Alumnae Association, MUW Alumnae Association, and now, Mississippi's First Alumnae Association. She has served on board in the past and would like to do so again.

Anne has been with her Partner, Carla (MUW c/o 1987), for 11 years. She is the mother of two sons, Chris (28) and Matthew (27), and has three granddaughter, Elizabeth (9), Gracie (7), and Madison (2) The family also includes four dogs -- Oreo, Molly, Toby and Leftie and four cats -- Spanky, Tucker, Dickens and Sadie.

Anne is Director of Creative Services for The Sharpe Group, leading planned giving consultants. Her hobbies include cooking (and eating), reading (Southern authors), and spending time with W friends.

Her goal as a board member would be to "Be a part of the move toward re-affiliation with our alma mater and contributing in whatever way I can to the continued excellence and women's mission of MUW."



Saturday, March 12, 2011

Meet the Candidates: Wanda Ray



In 1963, Wanda Ray received the B. S. in Business Education from MUW.  She accepted a position in the Academic Affairs Office at MUW in February since there were no teaching jobs in business at the time. Little did she know that the job would be so addictive that she would remain in that same office for over 40 years! While working, Wanda took classes at night and on the weekends and earned the Master of Science in Teaching degree in 1975. In the early 1980's she began taking art classes and received a B.S. in Art in 1989. She also attended night classes at Mississippi State University, earning nine hours toward the doctorate.

While at MUW as a student, Wanda was a member of Phi Beta Lambda, Pi Omega Pi, and the Christian Students group.

In 2004, Ms. Ray retired from MUW as Assistant to the Vice President for Academic Affairs, having served under four presidents, four acting presidents, and 12 vice presidents. While at MUW she was honored to receive the Outstanding Staff award and the Faculty Senate award. She was privileged to serve on the Staff Council and a number of other councils and committees while at MUW.

Both of Wanda's  parents are deceased. Her "children" include three very entertaining cats and two equally entertaining dogs. She is an active member of the Steens Church of Christ and continues to teach children's classes. Her hobbies include painting, jewelry making, flower gardening, and reading.

Thanks Wanda for your past and present service to MUW.  If anyone has any questions for Wanda, please post them here.

Friday, March 11, 2011

Friday Favorites: The Book of Peach

In connection with our Alumna Profile of Penelope J. Stokes, our Friday Favorite this week is her latest book.

The Book of Peach

About the Book:  Twenty-three years ago, beauty queen Peach Rondell left Mississippi and vowed never to return. Now she's back, divorced and heartbroken, trying to figure out how her life went so terribly wrong. To escape her mama's scrutinizing gaze, she spends her days in a little storefront diner called the Heartbreak Cafe, where, in the back booth, she scribbles away in her journal, waiting for enlightenment. Instead, Peach gets something even better: the unexpected friendship of an unlikely group of folks who show Peach that finding out where you're going usually means embracing where you're from.

My Comments:    Usually when you think of someone running home to Mama after a divorce, you think of someone who wants (and expects) love and acceptance, someone to bolster him/her and remind him/her of his/her love-ability.  Peach went home to Mama because she thought she had no place else to go, and she realized that the "cost" was going to be living with a hyper-critical woman she could never please; someone whose goal in life was keeping up appearances; someone she had avoided since she married.  

The story is told in the first person, by Peach and Peach is working with a counselor who has her journaling her thoughts and feelings, trying to lead her to a more mentally healthy place in life.  

I loved the writing and writing style.  I enjoyed the story, though I found it somewhat implausible.  A woman  with a college degree has no place to go after a divorce, but back to a hyper-critical mom, who she has avoided for twenty years?  Once she gets to her hometown, she doesn't go look for a job; rather she sits in a cafe and journals?  This goes on for months, not days.  After a stroke we find out that Peach's mom isn't such a bad person, deep down.  She was only trying to meet the expectations her mom had for her.

Penelope Stokes got her writing start in Christian fiction.  This book, while containing themes of forgiveness and redemption, is not Christian fiction.  Not only is there no overt call to conversion, there are a few passages that are critical to organized religion.  There is one major character who is identified as  homosexual, though his sex life is not part of the book.

As an alumna of Mississippi University for Women (a/k/a the W) I enjoyed seeing it mentioned in the book, but it was just in passing.  

Grade:  B+

This review was written by Ruth Wilz Curcuru, Class of 1983, and originally published on her blog: This That and the Other Thing.

Meet the Candidates: Del Oehms Hamilton

Del Oehms Hamilton, class of 1984 is a floor nominee for treasurer . After receiving her BS from MUW, Del attended USM. Del is a first generation college graduate.

 At the W, Del was a member of the Highlander Social Club. She served on the SGA and the Student Entertainment Association. She was in the Library Science Club and KDE and served as a photographer and staff member for both the Meh Lady and the Spectator.

Del has  been on the Board of Directors for the Alumnae Association and was awarded the Alumnae Achievement Award. She helped implement many of the electronic tools that the Association uses. She served as Chair of the Information Management Committee.

Del is proud mom to two furkids. Misty and Stormy have attended several W events including homecoming.

Del is currently serving as Project Manager for the Tulane Recovery Center overseeing contracts valued at several million dollars. She also oversees projects in Los Angeles and other areas as needed.

She is a candidate because she would like to be able to continue serving the association to my fullest ability. About being a member of The Long Blue Line, she states "My attendance at MUW literally saved my life and changed it completely. The experiences and education I had gave me opportunities I would have never received elsewhere. MUW is a very special place and molds people into incredible human beings that are both successful and giving."

If you have any questions for Del, please post them here.

Meet the Candidates: Deborah Stockman Hodges

Deborah Stockman Hodges  grew up in Mobile, Alabama. She attended the W on a Centennial Scholarship and graduated in May 1990 with a degree in accounting. While Deborah has worked in public accounting for most of her career,  for a few years she acted as controller for a major Christian media company and a building contractor. She is now a partner in the Mobile office of Prichard, Dewberry & Hodges, PC, a public accounting firm. She and her husband also own a sausage manufacturing and wholesale food distribution company.

Regarding her civic activities, Deborah tells us "I am currently president of the Women’s Business Center of Southern Alabama, a nonprofit organization whose mission is to empower women and men to start and grow their own business. I am also treasurer of Mississippi’s First Alumnae Association, serve on the board of directors of the Mississippi Nurses’ Foundation, as well as volunteer with the Alpine Hills Swim Club and the Alpine Sharks Swim Team."

Deborah has been married to her husband Jim since the week she graduated from the W. Says Deborah "We have three children, Cole, who is fourteen, Clay, who is eleven, and Caelin, who is eight and wants to be a W girl. We live in George County, Mississippi, between Mobile and Lucedale on a small farm with a barnyard full of animals."

A Note About Floor Nominees

While the current board nominates a slate of candidates for each office, any member is free to throw his/her hat in the ring or to nominate alums that s/he knows, and the fact that a candidate is a floor nominee rather than part of the slate put forth by the board does not mean she is any less a candidate than those on the Board's slate. One strength of our Association is that we have an abundant number of alums interested in serving. Another is that we trust our members to make good decisions.

Thursday, March 10, 2011

Alumna Profile: Author Penelope J. Stokes


Today we are pleased to welcome Penelope Stokes, MUW class of 1972 (M.A. 1973) and author of over ten published novels including Delta Belles, which has been reviewed on this blog,  as well as some non-fiction.  

What is your hometown, when were you at the W and  to what organizations did you belong while there?

Delta Belles: A Novel
I was born in Charleston, MS, on the edge of the Delta, but grew up in Jackson. I never really liked big towns much, so I felt in my element at the W and in Columbus.
A lot of my own W experience is reflected in Delta Belles. I suppose I could best describe myself as a literary nerd with a social conscience. I didn’t do social clubs, for example, but was active in the Civil Rights and antiwar movements (this was the sixties and early seventies, remember). I had a small circle of close friends, and I truly loved the community spirit at the W during those years. It had the feel of a small boarding school, with the benefits of a rich history and a progressive and comprehensive liberal arts education.

Why did you choose to attend MUW?

I actually considered the W initially because I rather hero-worshipped a summer camp counselor who was a W girl. When I investigated further, of course, that turned out to be only a minor factor in my decision—more of a catalyst to get me to consider the W. I didn’t want to go to a large university, and I wanted a college where literature and the arts were valued. That’s not always the case, even with a so-called “liberal arts” college. The English department at the W was, in those years, outstanding—and still is. My major professors had an enormous impact upon me, both intellectually and personally. They taught me to write, to think critically, and to believe in myself and my gifts. And their legacy continues to be reflected in my work and in my life.
When we make a decision or choose a path in life, we never know where it will lead or how it will turn out. Looking back, I realize that my choice to go to the W was probably one of the smartest decisions I ever made.  

Your biography says that you always wanted to be a writer, and your degrees are in English.  However, you note that it took a long time for your dream to come true.  Are you one of those people who wrote several books before trying to sell one, or did you write one and try to sell it?  Tell us how you moved from being an English professor to being a writer.

Yes, it was a family joke from the time I was about four that I would grow up to live in an attic and become a writer. Well, I don’t exactly live in an attic (can’t stand the heat), and yes, it did take a very long time for me to come around to writing as a career. I stayed in college for as long as humanly possible, just because I loved literature and learning—and of course, because I was avoiding getting a real job. During my doctoral work I began teaching and discovered a way to make a living without tying myself to a 9-to-5 schedule. It was the best of both worlds.

I still wanted to write, however—I even proposed a creative project (a novel or collection of short stories) for my doctoral dissertation. My committee turned me down, saying that it was impossible to earn a living as a writer. So I turned in a more traditional research project, jumped through the hoops, and got my Ph.D.
Home Fires Burning/Till We Meet Again/Remembering You (Faith on the Home Front Series 1-3)
Later, after years teaching reluctant students how to write, I began taking on freelance editing projects, which grew into a full time editing business and connected me with a great many editors and publishers. By the time I wrote my first novel (actually a trilogy), I already knew a lot of people who were willing to give me a chance, because they knew the quality of my writing and editing.

It’s not a story that anyone else could emulate—not the kind of “this is how I did it, and you can, too” model. But it does demonstrate that the universe opens up to us when we’re ready.

I want to stress, too, that I didn’t wait to write until some publisher was ready to offer me a contract. I wrote (and still write) all the time:  journaling, poetry, character sketches, ideas, liturgies for church, hymn lyrics, all kinds of stuff. Most of it will never be published, nor should it. But that’s what a writer does. A writer writes.  

What advice would you give to a college student who said that s/he wants to be a writer?  What about a person who has an established career but has always wanted to be a writer?

My advice would be the same for both:  Read. Write. Read. Write. Read, read, read. Write, write, write.

And while you’re reading and writing, LIVE. Experience things. Go places. Meet people. Fall in love. Find your truth. Be faithful to your promises. Keep journals. Remember what you see and hear. Be curious. Ask questions. Discover the connections between the internal and external worlds. See metaphors around you. Look for patterns in the universe. Use your pain and your joy and all the little everyday details that most people never notice.

And be patient. Writing is both a calling and a profession. Age doesn’t matter—in fact, both life and writing get richer year by year.  As a colleague once told me, “It doesn’t matter how late you get out of the gate if you’ve got a 440 under the hood.”

Tell me about your work with The Editorial Department.  If I'm one of those people  with a novel in the closet, what can I expect from The Editorial Department, and what, approximately, can I expect to pay for those services? 

The Editorial Department (www.editorialdepartment.com) offers a variety of excellent services for writers, and has a widely diverse, competent, and accomplished editorial staff. We offer manuscript evaluation, annotation, and various consultation services for both fiction and nonfiction projects. Go to the website and sleuth around; there’s lots of good free information there, as well as explanations of services, prices, and bios of the editorial staff. 

Circle of Grace: A Novel
Your early books were published by Christian publishers; your latest books have not been. The mass-market ones I've read (Circle of Grace, Delta Belles) have dealt with characters' faith, something not often seen in mass-market books.  However, those two also paint lesbian relationships in a favorable manner, something that is not acceptable to many Christian publishers.  Did you set out to write mass-market books, or did you find that Christian publishers would not accept those books? 

Just a quick clarification:  mass-market refers to the edition of the book, not the publisher. A mass-market novel is the inexpensive small paperback edition you can tuck in your bag (as opposed to a hardcover or trade paperback, which is a larger size with a more durable binding).

If I understand your question, I believe you’re asking about my transition from evangelical Christian publishers to general market publishers. That shift was intentional, not accidental; it came from a conscious decision to broaden my readership base, rather than as a reaction to rejection. I wanted to be able to address issues of diversity from a spiritual perspective, and as you observed, I wasn’t able to do that in a conventional Christian publishing setting.

I originally published in the evangelical markets because a) that’s where I started, and those were the editors and publishers who knew me, and b) because at the time the general market wasn’t doing much with spiritual fiction, so publishing a novel with spiritual content was an uphill climb.

It’s true that my general market novels contain subject matter that would be unacceptable to an evangelical publisher, and some of my early readers have castigated me for abandoning my faith. Nothing could be further from the truth. The spirituality that lies at the center of my life and fiction is faith in a God who is also known as Love, a Divine who embraces all people without regard to race, gender, nationality, sexual orientation, economic status, or any of the other artificial barriers that divide us. I really want readers to see that our preconceived notions of God are just that—our notions. That, in Shakespeare’s words, “There are more things in heaven and earth than are dreamt of in your philosophy [or theology].”

Beside A Quiet Stream Words Of Hope For Weary Hearts
Since your non-fiction books are faith-based, and your fiction, whether published by Christian publishers or secular has a definite faith component, would you please tell us a little about your religious beliefs and affiliations?

“Religious beliefs” would probably be a stretch for me, because I’m convinced that what you say you believe doesn’t matter nearly as much as how you live. I am a Christian not because of some checklist of tenets I accept, but because I seek to follow in the way of Jesus. That is, I seek to live in love and grace, to be vulnerable, to stand up for social justice and peace, to give a name and a voice to the marginalized, to accept people where they are, and to encourage people find their own way to God.

On a daily basis, my goal is to wake up, show up, and engage with the world and the people around me, to let myself be transformed.

Some days I do better than others. It’s a journey.

Do you ever expect to write Christian fiction again?

In the sense of writing evangelical novels that offer answers instead of raising questions? Probably not. But then, even when I was writing for the Christian markets, my novels didn’t fit that mold. I was always pretty much a duck out of water.

One of my favorite reader letters came in response to one of my earlier (and more conventionally Christian) novels. It was from a lesbian Unitarian Buddhist who said, “Thank you for writing a spiritual story that I can connect with.” That letter made me feel as if I’d done my job well.

Delta Belles is set at Mississippi Women's College. W alums see a lot of it there.  Were you trying to portray the W or just a generic women's college of that era?  Is any resemblance of your characters to real people purely coincidental, or....

If W alums don’t see their Alma Mater in Delta Belles, I’m worried about them.

Seriously, I never really set out to write a book about the W. But those years were so formative for me, and so rich, and so vivid, that I couldn’t leave out the Shattuck Dining Hall experience, or Front Campus, or the Ginkgo Tree, or the Old Maid’s Gate, or the Kissing Rock, or. . .well, any of it.

And yes, there are some characters in the novel who rose out of my experience at the W. Not major players, but peripheral characters. I won’t tell you which ones. You can probably figure it out, if you’re as old as I am.

You told me that your latest books are set in Columbus,MS.  Can you tell me a little bit about them?  Does MUW make an appearance? 

The Book of Peach
The W does make an appearance in Heartbreak Café and The Book of Peach, but only as a cameo. These two books are set in the fictional town of Chulahatchie, on the banks of the Tombigbee River—the area around Columbus, but a town much smaller than Columbus, one of those little Mississippi towns with a town square dominated by a county courthouse and a statue of a Confederate soldier. In my mind, Chulahatchie is kind of a cross between Charleston, where I was born, and Oxford, where I lived for five years while I was at Ole Miss. But neither one of those, either.
Heartbreak Cafe
Heartbreak Café is the first-person story of Dell Haley, who at the age of fifty is left widowed, broke, and alone. All Dell can do is cook, and so she risks everything to create a little diner that becomes the center for a rather unlikely community of outcasts.


One of those characters is Peach Rondell, a forty-something gone-to-seed beauty queen, who sits in the back booth of the café and writes in her journal. She ultimately becomes the central character in The Book of Peach, the crossover story of Peach and her mother coming to grips with their troubled relationship. 

Of all your books, which is your favorite?  Which character is your favorite?  Why?

That’s like asking which child is your favorite. . . .
The Treasure Box: A Novel
I loved writing The Treasure Box simply because it was so different and so much fun. I’m a Star Trek fan, and have long been fascinated by the space/time continuum, and the possibility of multiple futures, depending upon the choices one makes in the present. Those “what ifs” form the foundational concept of The Treasure Box, The Memory Book, and The Wishing Jar.

The Amber Photograph
I think The Amber Photograph is one of my best books, but was one of the hardest to write because of the emotional nature of the subject matter.

In the final analysis, I think my favorite book is always the one I’m writing now. That’s where my passion lies, and on a good day, the place I feel most connected to the Holy and to my own inner light.

What can we expect from you in the future? 

People ask, “Are you working on a new book?” I’m ALWAYS working on a new book. But I don’t talk about what I’m writing, because talking dilutes the energy of it. If I talk about it, I don’t have to write it.

I’ll just say this:  It’s a novel about dreams [the kind we have at night when we sleep], and about how dreams both reveal and transform our inner lives. There’s a power in dreams that goes mostly untapped, a power that can pull back the veil between this world and the next. When that portal is opened, almost anything can happen. . . .


I'd like to thank Penelope for visiting with us today.  Any of the book covers shown in this post are clickable links to Amazon and will generate a sales commission should you choose to buy anything from Amazon before leaving the site.  Any commissions generated by the sale of Ms. Stokes books will be donated to Mississippi University for Women.  


This week's Friday Favorite will be one of Ms. Stokes' books, so y'all come back now!